On Marriage Anxiety

Marriage is a romantic thing, but if you worry the marriage and the unfortunate ending in the future. Not to mention, that will protect you from going foward. You will have no motivation to get married or to continue maintaining the marriage. So I divide into two parts. One is before marriage, the other is after marriage.


Before marriage, you will worry whether he is your Mr.Right, for you are afraid of regretting. If you're regretting, you might be a runaway bride. That is what you see on the news. Moreover, you will worry fetters of an unhappy marriage. For example, Lau, Carina and Tony Leung doesn't getmarry because of the fetter. The last but not the least is having enough money, for you hold a wedding, you need amount of money, and well-prepared for the future capital.


After marriage, the main worry is ecnomic pooblem, for it is a pillar of a family. If you have a big problem on the economic, it will affect your children's education,too.The second is revealing his true color. You have to try to accept the differences and to tolerate. The third is domestic violence. You can have a 113 call, and it can help you. The forth is having extramarital relations, for you lack a sense of security, so try to trust each others. The last is how to get along with father-in-low and mother-in-low, for there are many events on the news that have a fight, so try to respect each other.


To sum up, if you have this kind of emotion, you do not be nervous. Thinking twice is a right way, but you cannot give up owing to your caution. Marriage is like a pair of shoes. Just you will know whether they are suitable or not. If you reject to wear the shoes, maybe you can avoid getting hurt, but it is possible to step on a nail becouse of your barefeet. Anyway, you have to try , and you will know marriage is also a way to protect your love when you are conscious of the meaning.