Marriage is a romantic thing, but if you worry the marriage and the unfortunate ending in the future. Not to mention, that will protect you from going foward. You will have no motivation to get married or to continue maintaining the marriage. So I divide into two parts. One is before marriage, the other is after marriage.
Before marriage, you will worry whether he is your Mr.Right, for you are afraid of regretting. If you're regretting, you might be a runaway bride. That is what you see on the news. Moreover, you will worry fetters of an unhappy marriage. For example, Lau, Carina and Tony Leung doesn't getmarry because of the fetter. The last but not the least is having enough money, for you hold a wedding, you need amount of money, and well-prepared for the future capital.
After marriage, the main worry is ecnomic pooblem, for it is a pillar of a family. If you have a big problem on the economic, it will affect your children's education,too.The second is revealing his true color. You have to try to accept the differences and to tolerate. The third is domestic violence. You can have a 113 call, and it can help you. The forth is having extramarital relations, for you lack a sense of security, so try to trust each others. The last is how to get along with father-in-low and mother-in-low, for there are many events on the news that have a fight, so try to respect each other.
To sum up, if you have this kind of emotion, you do not be nervous. Thinking twice is a right way, but you cannot give up owing to your caution. Marriage is like a pair of shoes. Just you will know whether they are suitable or not. If you reject to wear the shoes, maybe you can avoid getting hurt, but it is possible to step on a nail becouse of your barefeet. Anyway, you have to try , and you will know marriage is also a way to protect your love when you are conscious of the meaning.
2007年11月20日 星期二
2007年11月18日 星期日
The Meaning of Life
What with the stress of living and what with the lack of life goal, Taiwan society has seen a drastic increase in the rate of suicide in recent years.
In fact, hardly a day has passed without a suicide attempt reported in the media. According to social workers, the reasons include depression, sadness, and disease. What should we do to reduce the rate of suicide? I think that the best way to reduce suicide is to refine our mind and to build a constructive philosophy of life.
Everyone has sometime said to himself: Why and for what purpose am I here on earth? Is this life an end or simply a preparation for another life? It is probably fair to say that no one can answer these questions. But based on our background and our religion, we will have an answer of ourselves. Take myself for example, I convinced that our presence on earth, here and now, is a mission and that we should make the most of it to accomplish our mission. Life is dear to everyone. There is much to live for. There are so many things that we have not seen or felt. We cannot escape problems by committing suicide. We should face the music, treasure every day and love the world in our own way. I also believe that the true measure of our success or failure in this life lies in whether we do whatever we are doing all out.
To sum up,life is not always joyful, but when sufferings come, we ought to hold an attitude that happiness makes one a human being; sufferings makes one a god. Let's face the life of our own. No matter whether it is sweet or bitter, we will not realize what life is until we taste it.
In fact, hardly a day has passed without a suicide attempt reported in the media. According to social workers, the reasons include depression, sadness, and disease. What should we do to reduce the rate of suicide? I think that the best way to reduce suicide is to refine our mind and to build a constructive philosophy of life.
Everyone has sometime said to himself: Why and for what purpose am I here on earth? Is this life an end or simply a preparation for another life? It is probably fair to say that no one can answer these questions. But based on our background and our religion, we will have an answer of ourselves. Take myself for example, I convinced that our presence on earth, here and now, is a mission and that we should make the most of it to accomplish our mission. Life is dear to everyone. There is much to live for. There are so many things that we have not seen or felt. We cannot escape problems by committing suicide. We should face the music, treasure every day and love the world in our own way. I also believe that the true measure of our success or failure in this life lies in whether we do whatever we are doing all out.
To sum up,life is not always joyful, but when sufferings come, we ought to hold an attitude that happiness makes one a human being; sufferings makes one a god. Let's face the life of our own. No matter whether it is sweet or bitter, we will not realize what life is until we taste it.
2007年11月16日 星期五
Mother's letter
I got a letter from my mom last Thursday. She seldom writes a letter. If she writes a letter that means she wants to talk something in her deeply mind. It is a little fun that I am afraid of her letters for I would read them and burst into tears.
In the letter, I can understand my mom is in despair because she feels that we are not good children at all. I know she is worry about us; however, we just think about ourselves. All we are selfish. She also mentions that she wants to communicate with us, but no one listens to her. She complains that we make her disappointed.
After reading the letter, I try to watch over my brothers and me. I think we should stand on other shoes. Parents' hard-working is for us. They are philanthropies.
To sum up, we should be considerate
children. Moreover, communication plays an important role in a family relation. If mom can lessen the worry, we will become more intimate.
In the letter, I can understand my mom is in despair because she feels that we are not good children at all. I know she is worry about us; however, we just think about ourselves. All we are selfish. She also mentions that she wants to communicate with us, but no one listens to her. She complains that we make her disappointed.
After reading the letter, I try to watch over my brothers and me. I think we should stand on other shoes. Parents' hard-working is for us. They are philanthropies.
To sum up, we should be considerate
children. Moreover, communication plays an important role in a family relation. If mom can lessen the worry, we will become more intimate.
2007年11月14日 星期三
A Touched Movie---October Sky
This is a true story, and this film was showed on in 1999. A kid,Homer Hickam, is pursuing for his future. He would rather be a scientist than work in the local coalmine like his father. In October 1957, when he sees the first artificial satellite, he makes up his mind to achieve his aim.
With that event, Homer works with his classmates, and they tried and tried again. At the beginning, Homer's father thinks that they are wasting their time, so he disprove what they do. Only one female teacher understands their efforts and lets them know that they could become competitions in the national science fair with college scholarships. Actually, he and his class mates begin making rockets, which they fly from a patch of barren land eight miles out of town. Unfortunately, when they are noticed, the poice accuse them of making fire because of the rocket. But Homer arithmetics and proves that the murderers are not them. After that, their preident support their experiment. Finally, Homer and his campanions win the prize, and all the people in the town are proud of him, including his father.
To sum up, I have to say October Sky is a touched movie, for Homer persists in his dream, and makes it possible. In this film, the inspiration is what I have to learn. I am really enjoyful for the effort, I think he can achieve his acheivement, so I can.
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Just to whet your curiosity (and get you to read the book to find out the real and much more detailed story) here are some Rocket Boys truths:
1.Homer's name is not Homer in the book. He used his nickname, "Sonny." His mother gave him the nickname but the Great Six (his Coalwood school teachers) had their own ideas on how it should be spelled
2.Homer's Dad's name is not John, it is Homer. Homer, Jr. (Sonny) was named after his father
3.The Rocket Boys were a group of SIX boys not four
4.The Rocket Boys never stole railroad tracks for rocket supply money. They did, however, go after the cast iron pipe underneath the tracks. Homer almost lost his life doing it
5.Homer did not quit school to go work in the mines
6.The Rocket Boys did not win scholarships to go to college. They received, however, a far greater gift
The truth's soruce :http://www.homerhickam.com/movies/
2007年11月11日 星期日
On smoking
We all know that smoking does much harm to our health. But it is a pity that many people ignore it. Instead, they think that smoking is of great help to thinking and relaxing. Evidence shows that smokers are more likely to have lung cancer than non-smokers' health. In spite of this, the number of smoking is getting larger and the age of them is falling. So it is high time that we should stop to think about the problem and take some measures to solve it.
Nothing is more urgent than solving the problem of smoking. What should we do to fight against the problem? The following are my suggestions. First of all, the government authorities concerned should tighten its enforcement of laws and harshly punish violators, for laws without penalties are bells without clappers. In the second place, the education authorities concerned should put more emphasis on moral education and educate people what terrible effect smoking will have on themselves and others, for education is the best way to correct bad habits. Most important of all, we should be conscious of the harm of smoking and keep away from cigarettes, for everything begins at ourselves. If we can carry out the above-mentioned, I'm convinced that the problem can be solved.
To sum up, smoking is equal to suicide. Whether we can get away from the danger of smoking depends on ourselves. As we know, keeping away from cigarettes is the best way to live a health life. So beware of your first cigarette.
***This topic is for one of my best friends－－－SHE!
Nothing is more urgent than solving the problem of smoking. What should we do to fight against the problem? The following are my suggestions. First of all, the government authorities concerned should tighten its enforcement of laws and harshly punish violators, for laws without penalties are bells without clappers. In the second place, the education authorities concerned should put more emphasis on moral education and educate people what terrible effect smoking will have on themselves and others, for education is the best way to correct bad habits. Most important of all, we should be conscious of the harm of smoking and keep away from cigarettes, for everything begins at ourselves. If we can carry out the above-mentioned, I'm convinced that the problem can be solved.
To sum up, smoking is equal to suicide. Whether we can get away from the danger of smoking depends on ourselves. As we know, keeping away from cigarettes is the best way to live a health life. So beware of your first cigarette.
***This topic is for one of my best friends－－－SHE!
2007年11月9日 星期五
On Money
As a Chinese saying goes, "With money one can raise a spirit; without it he cannot command a man." By this, it means that if we have money, we can make the devil go; if we have no money, it is no use calling because there is no one coming. As a result, many people are busy making money. But in fact, the love of money is the root of all evils.
Money is like a thief. It will steal your money. To make money, some people betray their friends and even their family. And others lose their dignity and conscience. Someone said, "Money never made a man happy." What ever do we view money as?
In my opinion, money is not everything. For one thing, money can't buy things that are not for sale, such as health, affection, and conscience. For another, some of the most valuable things that nature has to offer us, such as the sun, the rain, and the wind can't be bought with money. There is no denying that it is a wonderful thing to have money and the things that money can buy. But I am convinced that even if we have little money, we can be as happy in the cottage as in the mansion. In short, I think that money is not everything; instead, I think that we should check up once in a while to make sure that we do not lose what can't be bought with money when we are blind to seeking money.
Money is like a thief. It will steal your money. To make money, some people betray their friends and even their family. And others lose their dignity and conscience. Someone said, "Money never made a man happy." What ever do we view money as?
In my opinion, money is not everything. For one thing, money can't buy things that are not for sale, such as health, affection, and conscience. For another, some of the most valuable things that nature has to offer us, such as the sun, the rain, and the wind can't be bought with money. There is no denying that it is a wonderful thing to have money and the things that money can buy. But I am convinced that even if we have little money, we can be as happy in the cottage as in the mansion. In short, I think that money is not everything; instead, I think that we should check up once in a while to make sure that we do not lose what can't be bought with money when we are blind to seeking money.
2007年10月3日 星期三
2007年9月26日 星期三
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